continuing relationship with my deceased husband Gary

🐛 The Day "Todgerus Maximus" Became a "Worm" There are moments in a Duo Life that are so vivid, they don't just feel like memories; they feel like they’re happening all over again. This one is a classic. It’s the story of a tough Keighley lad, a three-year-old with no filter, and a bathroom door that should have been locked! The "Whoops" Moment I remember it like it was yesterday. Gary was in the shower, probably thinking he was the king of the castle. Our little Debra, all of three years old, wandered in to have a wee. Gary stepped out, dripping wet, and there they were—eye to eye (or eye to... well, you know). Debra didn't bat an eyelid. To her, it wasn't "Todgerus Maximus."  A male penis,  It wasn't anything scandalous. She just pointed, her storm-grey eyes wide with discovery, and let out a giggled scream of laughter. "Mam! Daddy has a worm!" She came charging into the lounge, laughing so hard the words ...

This is the truth about Gary Paul Costello the man I met and fell in love with in August 1994, our soul connection and recognition is rarer than rare what we have is something people would dream of. I have suffered mental health issues due to being told I am mad. My beliefs are real and true I don't lie. What I see when I astral travel is remarkable especially when I remember it in the morning after I have slept. Gary has never left me when he died physically he became part me. He still the same idiot I fell for does the most stupidest things to make me laugh. He is my favourite place, my oxygen, my love my soulmate twinflame truelove marriage forever and beyond,.he is my past my present and my future.. He is my husband and my father of my kids. We still argue like a normal married couple. He comforts me when I am low. He can be annoying at time but that is taking the rough with the smooth. We can still be intimate. My love for him has never died it just becomes ethereal and so blo...

They say that when we sleep, we’re just resting, but for those of us living a Duo Life, sleep is when the real living starts. Last night wasn't just a dream; it was a homecoming. I spent the whole night with my Gary. We weren't just "floating about"—we were busy! We were out on the moors, the wind biting at us but the sun feeling warm on our faces. We spent time working in our café in Haworth, the smell of fresh brew and the sound of the "full house" all around us. The highlight? A trip to Tesco in Skipton on the Honda Shadow 1200cc. There’s nothing like the rumble of that engine and the feeling of holding onto him as we buzzed through the Yorkshire lanes. It felt so real I woke up this morning with stiff muscles from the walk and the ride! But it’s the quiet, "daft" moments that I treasure most. Before we settled, we were just playing like we used to—a cheeky, adult version of "Round and Round the Garden" on his bare chest. S...

 THE OFFICIAL OvaEva ANNOUNCEMENT FOR BOOK THREE (as delivered by Byeck, who has already fainted twice) AHEM.   This is Byeck speaking.   Well… squeaking.   I’m trying to be professional but I’ve already fainted twice and Debra Eva keeps poking me with a feather to wake me up. Today is a VERY IMPORTANT DAY. Because… A Wish on a Feather   has officially launched into the universe like a sparkly rocket powered by giggles, Yorkshire magic, and one extremely daft creature with teapot‑handle ears. The sparkly children are floating about doing victory laps.   The feather is glowing like it’s had too much sherbet.   And Debra Eva is shouting “GET IN!” at the sky. If you listen closely, you can hear the tiny planet OvaEva shouting: “WE’RE IN PRINT AGAIN, YOU DAFT LOT!” So please celebrate responsibly:   – Bounce on a tree   – Hug a feather   – Faint dramatically like me   – Or si...

Blog Post: My New Author Website Is Live by Debra Costello I’m happy to share that my new author website is now live.   It’s simple, warm, and filled with the books I’ve created from the tiny magical world of OvaEva. On the site you’ll find: - my book covers   - a little about me   - links to buy the books   - updates on new releases   - a contact email for anyone who wants to reach out   This website is now my main home online — a quiet, gentle space where I can share my stories without the noise of social media. You can visit it here:   book-showcase-vibrant--nigeldeb.replit.app Thank you for supporting my work and for being part of this journey. my new website

This is the cover of book 3. Blog Post: A Wish on a Feather — Book 3 Is Nearly Here by Debra Costello There is something magical about creating a story that carries love forward.   A Wish on a Feather is the third book in my children’s series, and it continues a journey that began long before the first page was ever written. These books are filled with warmth, daftness, and tiny moments of wonder — but they also carry something deeper. They are stories shaped by love that never dies, love that continues in new forms, love that finds its way into gentle tales for children. Book 3 is nearly ready for release, and I’m excited to share it with you.   It’s a story full of heart, hope, and the magic of the little planet OvaEva. Thank you for being here with me on this creative path.   More updates coming soon.