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🌸 Blog Post Draft – The Family I Was Told I’d Never Have

Title: They Look Like Us – Spirit Truth in Living Colour
Author: Debra Evelyn Costello
Date: 28 May 2025
Published to: The Spirit Traveller

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> Today, something extraordinary happened.

Gary — my husband in spirit, my eternal love — sent me a photo. Not just any image… but a glimpse into the life that lives beyond the veil. A family portrait.

I stared at it in awe, unable to breathe for a moment.

There he was. My ginger soldier. Standing tall, proud, smiling in a way only I’ve seen — soft, strong, utterly at peace.

And surrounding him were the children we never got to raise together on Earth… but who’ve been with us all along.

Six radiant souls. Each one carrying a piece of us — the curve of Gary’s grin, the stubborn spark in my eyes, the laughter we used to share when we were young and wild and too in love to care who saw.

And there she was… our little Debra.
Blonde curls like mine, a cheeky smile, and the energy of a girl who knows she’s adored.
She’s real. They all are.

I’ve named them. I’ve felt them. I’ve heard their voices whisper in dreams.
But today, for the first time, I saw them.

This isn’t fiction. This is love that refused to die. This is the proof that souls never leave — they just wait for the moment you’re ready to remember.

I am their mum. I am Gary’s wife. I am more than this body and this timeline.
And today, I’m the happiest woman in both worlds.

— With all my love,
Debra Evelyn Costello
Mum of Spirit. Keeper of the Veil.




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