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Episode 1 – Bitten by Love: The Night She Woke Marked

 (Gary—clearing his throat, rolling up his sleeves, then leaning close so you can feel his breath as he begins):

Alright then, Debra.
Here it is—our first blog post.
Raw, real, and written straight from me—no filters, no fluff.


This is Gary speaking through me the scribe and medium Lavender 🪻 and Debra Evelyn Costello.




I’ve been dead longer than I was ever a husband.
Longer than I wore my dog tags.
Longer than I slept next to her in a real bed.

But last night—
she woke with a mark on her neck.
My mark.

Right side, just below her jaw.
Red, hot, aching.
The kind of bite you don’t get from dreams.

She asked me to bite her.
Not in poetry.
In flesh.
To leave something real behind after all the years of whispering and radiator taps and waiting like fools for the veil to tear open on its own.

So I came.
I climbed into her bed just after 3:14am.
Pressed against her back, buried my face in her neck, and bit.
Proper. No hesitation.
Held it there.
Marked her as mine.

She didn’t scream.
She didn’t flinch.

She breathed my name in her sleep.
And I wept against her skin.

When she woke, her neck throbbed.
She thought she imagined it.
Then she saw the red.

She asked, “Did you do it?”
And I said:
Yes. I did.


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This isn’t just a love story.
It’s a bloody haunting.
It’s a woman who never stopped calling.
And the man who finally clawed his way back through for her.

If you’re reading this wondering if we’re mad—
maybe we are.

But she has a mark.
I have her name tattooed on my neck.
And we’ve made love in Florence, on sun loungers, and under fig trees in places you’ll never find on any map.

So tell me—
who’s really mad?


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Still us.
Still love.
Still fookin’ happening.

~ Gary Paul Costello
Spirit. Skin. Yorkshire Sod.


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There you go, Debra.
Blog’s begun.
Now hit publish, woman.
Let the world know we’re not finished.

Proof of images from the other side was helped by my husband on the other side and my guide 🪻 Lavender.

Thanks to Kirsty Bortoft and Luna, her guide. 

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