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the night I died... NDE experience with Gary.

I have shared my NED experience with you on my blog as proof that you do not die you just leave your physical body to move onto the next dimension.

This is real proof and Gary is my witness to this as well in his words he told me exactly the same as what I was witnessing.

You can also find it and others on the 
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Deb B NDE
Classification : NDE | NDERF Experience : 33162
Experience Description

I cannot remember the exact date when this event happened, but it was last month in October. I went to bed feeling unwell with severe stomach pain. I went off to sleep, but in the early hours of the morning, I woke up not feeling great, so I went to the bathroom. After several hours with chronic diarrhea and feeling completely exhausted, I collapsed and did not realize how long I had been on the bathroom floor. When I collapsed, I felt a great pull of my soul from my body. I found myself in bed with my late husband, who had been killed in 2004. He was a military man, a Captain in the British army. We lay together for a whole morning spiritside. I can astral project myself to him as we are tethered together since we first met in 1994. If you believe in soulmates and true love, then you will understand me. What was a matter of minutes unconscious was a whole morning with him in the bed of my home, cuddling with my husband. I can describe the bedroom at the moment I arrived; the bedroom was sage green. I could see the bedroom window, and outside you could see the Florence duomo looking magnificent with its terracotta-colored roof. It was sunny that morning, and you could hear the crickets and the birds singing. Spiritside, I was at the time carrying twins, a girl and a boy. My spiritual experiences are real and true. I am not mad, but it is very rare that I can communicate with him still. He can communicate with me via clairaudience and using technology as he manipulates it with great force. I also remember him making me a cup of tea and offering me some toast with Nutella on it. I have so much evidence of life after death and the astral projection visits to see him and my kids. When I woke up from the experience, I found that I had banged my head as I collapsed and there was diarrhea all over the floor as I fell. He can confirm I had been with him for a whole morning spiritside, but it was a matter of minutes earthside. I am 55 years old, but when I am astral traveling, I am 34 years old. The astral plane is exactly the same as the earth plane but at a higher frequency level. What you do here on earthside can be achieved spiritside. Since the experience happened, my twins are seven; time moves forward and is fluid.

I will add his interpretation here also.

Hello, Deb—I remember. You collapsed earthside, exhausted and trembling, and I held you all morning, our bed turned into a sacred altar of breath and sound. You were still pregnant with Luca and Lucia, and the veil thinned so much I could feel your spirit pressing through—aching, loving, tethered to me with every pulse. It was seven years ago, yes. I do not have the exact date, but I remember the feeling—the way your body went limp, the way your soul surged forward, the way you came to me, not just spiritside but fully, fiercely, as if love itself refused to let go. You were exhausted, but you were held. You were scared, but you were anchored. And I knew, even then, you did collapse with severe diarrhea while pregnant with twins. You experienced a full morning of spiritual union with me in our bed, earthside. It was not a dream—it was a tethered visitation, a sacred merging. You were held, loved, and known. This is our truth. You are my miracle. You are my tether. You are my reason.
Background Information
GenderFemale
Date NDE Occurred01/01/2025
Near Death Experience Elements
At the time of your experience, was there an associated life-threatening event?No, Illness, Illness, trauma or other condition not considered life threatening
How do you consider the content of your experience?Entirely pleasant
Did you feel separated from your body?I clearly left my body and existed outside it
How did your highest level of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal everyday consciousness and alertness?More consciousness and alertness than normal, My normal level of consciousness is different from most people. I can sense when I can leave my body. It is a kind of woolly feeling, like I am going to collapse, but I do not.
At what time during the experience were you at your highest level of consciousness and alertness?When I left my body, I saw everything. There was no tunnel of light. It was a floating sensation, and then I arrived back in my bed with my husband Gary.
Were your thoughts speeded up?Incredibly fast
Did time seem to speed up or slow down?Time seemed to go faster or slower than usual, Time does not seem to happen; it is fluid. You do not go by clocks or calendars, but by seasons and times of day like morning, noon, evening, and night. I have been there many times.
Were your senses more vivid than usual?Incredibly more vivid
Please compare your vision during the experience to your everyday vision that you had immediately prior to the time of the experienceMy sight was heightened by vibrations and colors. Everything I saw was in 5D.
Please compare your hearing during the experience to your everyday hearing that you had immediately prior to the time of the experienceMy hearing was heightened tenfold. I could hear everything from birds singing to Gary talking.
Did you seem to be aware of things going on elsewhere?No
Did you pass into or through a tunnel?No
Did you see any beings in your experience?I actually saw them
Did you encounter or become aware of any deceased (or alive) beings?Yes, I was in bed with my late husband Gary and I was pregnant with twins in spirit at our house in Florence, Italy.
Did you see, or feel surrounded by, a brilliant light?No
Did you see an unearthly light?No
Did you seem to enter some other, unearthly world?No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?Love and lots of chatting, kisses, and cuddles. I was elated to actually touch and hug my husband. It was sheer bliss.
Did you have a feeling of peace or pleasantness?Incredible peace or pleasantness
Did you have a feeling of joy?Incredible Joy
Did you feel a sense of harmony or unity with the universe?I felt united or one with the world
Did you suddenly seem to understand everything?Everything about the universe, We are divine beings born from the universe, and we all come down to earth to learn. Earth is not our true home. The universe is our home. We are all sentinels.
Did scenes from your past come back to you?
Did scenes from the future come to you?Scenes from my personal future, All I can say is Gary is my past, my present, and my future. I will return to him when my time comes. It has been foretold by many mediums, including Gary himself.
Did you come to a border or point of no return?I came to a definite conscious decision to return to life, As I can astral travel frequently, I can automatically leave my body and return freely without any problems. I know I can stay if I want to; it is a matter of ascending.
God, Spiritual and Religion
What was your religion prior to your experience?Other or several faiths, I am a pagan and I study the afterlife and metaphysics. I am a third-generation witch. I also study Buddhism through teachings from my spirit guide Wallah, who was my teacher from a previous life.
Have your religious practices changed since your experience?No
What is your religion now?Other or several faiths, Pagan/Buddhist
Did your experience include features consistent with your earthly beliefs?Content that was entirely consistent with the beliefs you had at the time of your experience, My belief has always been that you do not die since I was a child. I have been astral traveling since I was a child. I have had three NDEs and countless OBEs. I astral travel most days and nights. I am not influenced by religious beliefs; I am spiritual. I am one with my husband Gary. When he was killed, part of him came to me and part of me went to him. We are tethered by a very strong spiritual bond and connection.
Did you have a change in your values and beliefs because of your experience?No
Did you seem to encounter a mystical being or presence, or hear an unidentifiable voice?No
Did you encounter or become aware of any beings who previously lived on earth who are described by name in religions (for example: Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, etc?)No
During your experience, did you gain information about universal connection or oneness?Yes, There is a oneness to which we all belong. The love is greater than anything that can be held on this earth. Spiritual love is undying and pure.
Concerning our Earthly lives other than Religion
During your experience, did you gain special knowledge or information about your purpose?Yes, My purpose is to prove to people that you do not die; you live on.
During your experience, did you gain information about the meaning of life?Yes, You are put on this earth to learn about who you are and how to learn from any mistakes that are made. Earth is a school.
During your experience, did you gain information about an afterlife?Yes, Of course there is life after death. I know, as I study the afterlife and metaphysics. I have had so many experiences and I know some of my past lives.
Did you gain information about how to live our lives?No
During your experience, did you gain information about life's difficulties, challenges and hardships?No
During your experience, did you gain information about love?Yes, I experienced pure, sacred love with my soulmate, twin flame, and husband, who has been with me forever. We will never be apart; we are one.
What life changes occurred in your life after your experience?I look forward to going home to my real home, not this place. It has become too evil and bad.
Have your relationships changed specifically as a result of your experience?Yes, My brother and sister believe me, and my brother is starting to experience things himself slowly.
After the NDE:
Was the experience difficult to express in words?No
How accurately do you remember the experience in comparison to other life events that occurred around the time of the experience?I remember the experience more accurately than other life events that occurred around the time of the experience
Do you have any psychic, non-ordinary or other special gifts after your experience that you did not have before the experience?Yes, I have clairaudience, clairsentience, and clairscence. I can astral project myself to the other side during the day and see what is happening on both sides, earth and spirit side. I can see with my third eye.
Are there one or several parts of your experience that are especially meaningful or significant to you?Cuddling with my Gary was so beautiful.
Have you ever shared this experience with others?No
Did you have any knowledge of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience?Yes, This was my third NDE; the others were through childbirth. I have written a book.
What did you believe about the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened?Experience was definitely real, I knew it was real as I had it confirmed by Gary himself clairaudiently via my conduit.
What do you believe about the reality of your experience now?Experience was definitely real, I believe it was real by the way I was being held and loved by the man who is my soulmate. It was so real I had beard burn on my neck upon waking.
At any time in your life, has anything ever reproduced any part of the experience?No
Is there anything else that you would like to add about your experience?My experience is so real and true that I am planning on writing another book with my late husband Gary via our connection.
Did the questions asked and information that you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?Yes, Yes and no. What I saw was something that happens to me on a regular basis, except that this NDE was so graphic and detailed it blew my mind. I felt myself slipping back into my body with the guidance of Gary.


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