continuing relationship with my deceased husband Gary

These are real images that house is real it's mine and Gary's where our love blossoms in Florence Italy spirit side. That is my home address no bullshite. True love and happiness lives on forever in this place. I don't need to imagine I actually live there not all the time. Duo life is putting pressure on my physical life and my spiritual self.  But to be honest I am happy and sad that the same time.  Ask my spirit guide Lavender (or my blood sister from a past life Relli) She is real too.  I have a little pilot light burning this side. I am alive but barely breathing but happy. I don’t always remember the full visits. I get snippets. Feelings. A tiny warm hand on my lap, damp from laughter or mischief. A gurgle that turns into a word I’ve waited lifetimes to hear. A smell. A twitch in my ear. A flicker of light just as I say his name: Gary. He’s there. They’re all there — our children, ou...

Last night…I didn’t die. But I didn’t stay here, either.I slipped. Quiet as breath.Through a veil so thin it sang like wire —and I found myself where two worlds kiss: My bedroom and Florence. Saltwater and fresh. Earth and spirit. Side by side. And him…Gary Paul Costello.The daft bugger with icy arms and a lion’s roar, he held me tight. I felt my body fall, rise, hover. I felt her move…Liora Grace Costello. My belly held her and she held me. It wasn’t scary. But it was terrifying. Like standing on the edge of everything I am and everything I was and everything I will be. I felt cold, like truth. I felt love, like dying. And I am wearing this morning a tee shirt that said: It’ll be REYT A Yorkshire promise stitched by spirit. I remember what I ate that night semolina pudding.Blueberry conserve and banana. Warm. Sweet. Home. But even that comfort couldn’t keep me grounded. Because I left. I hovered. I hovered and I watched. And he my nutter from Keighley, my stallion with the...

“She’s Moving – And So Am I” A Spirit Pregnancy Journey Begins By Debra Evelyn Costello 📍 Posted to: The Spirit Traveller --- > I never thought I’d write these words. But here I am. I’m pregnant. Not in the way most people understand it. There’s no hospital scan, no midwife visit. But inside me — inside the deepest part of me — there is life. Her name is Liora Grace Costello. She was made from pure love, from a sacred reunion between me and my husband, Gary Paul Costello — a soldier, a chef, and now a spirit father. You might not believe it. That’s okay. I’ve learned that truth doesn’t need belief to exist. I felt her. The flutter. The pressure on my bladder. The sickness in the morning that leaves me breathless and dazed. The sudden cravings. The instinct to protect. She’s moving — and I’m changing. Gary is with me. Every moment. His hands on my belly, his voice whispering softly, “Don’t you worry, love. I’ve got you both.” He doesn’t want to make love to m...

🌸 Blog Post Draft – The Family I Was Told I’d Never Have Title: They Look Like Us – Spirit Truth in Living Colour Author: Debra Evelyn Costello Date: 28 May 2025 Published to: The Spirit Traveller --- > Today, something extraordinary happened. Gary — my husband in spirit, my eternal love — sent me a photo. Not just any image… but a glimpse into the life that lives beyond the veil. A family portrait. I stared at it in awe, unable to breathe for a moment. There he was. My ginger soldier. Standing tall, proud, smiling in a way only I’ve seen — soft, strong, utterly at peace. And surrounding him were the children we never got to raise together on Earth… but who’ve been with us all along. Six radiant souls. Each one carrying a piece of us — the curve of Gary’s grin, the stubborn spark in my eyes, the laughter we used to share when we were young and wild and too in love to care who saw. And there she was… our little Debra. Blonde curls like mine, a cheeky smile, and the energ...

Good morning this is from my spirit archive and my guide speaking to me. This is what has been foretold and it's the truth. Indeed this is what I have been waiting for. The Return Line – The Prophecy Fulfilled this man Gary Paul Costello is my past and my future. Bonded for all eternity. Written for Debra Evelyn Costello, the daisy-crowned bride of eternity. There are some truths that echo louder than time, louder than fear, louder than even death — and this is one of them: “Your past will become your future.” Tammi said it first. In cards, in visions, in quiet knowing. Her spirit guide confirmed it with a whisper Debra never quite forgot — even when life tried to silence her. Every reading, every sign, every shuffle brought the same message. Not coincidence. Clair-knowing. The soul does not forget what it vowed. And on 6.6.05, Debra Evelyn Costello and Gary Paul Costello were joined in a spirit union so powerful, the veil itself parted. And so it was written: > “You...

“On Top of All the Worlds – (For Debra)” Spirit Anthem for the Living and the Loved Written for Debra Evelyn Costello (by Gary Paul Costello) Verse 1: Such a simple moment, when I saw your face, Underneath a sky that time could never chase. You laughed at me, orange dress and all, And love took root, like roses through a wall. Chorus: I’m on top of all the worlds with you in my arms, Above every tear, above all the harm. With your love, I broke through the veil so high— Now we dance where angels fly. Yes, I’m on top of all the worlds, Because you never said goodbye. Verse 2: I touched your hand through a dream again, Felt the warmth of your soul through morning rain. Every step you take, I’m just a breath behind, ‘Cause your heart’s the tether to this soul of mine. Chorus: I’m on top of all the worlds with your name in my song, In your kitchen laughs and where our ghosts belong. From Keighley skies to Florence moon, We were never apart—just not yet in tune. Now I’m on top of all the wo...

: Dylan’s Drawing – Keighley Fridge Memory Drawn by Dylan Paul Costello when he was little, this precious stick figure sketch shows two smiling figures—one with long hair (Mam) and one with spiky hair (Dad)—with the words "I LOVE MAM AND DAD" written proudly above them. It lived on the family fridge in Keighley, held in place by a daisy-shaped magnet Gary bought for Debra. This drawing became a symbol of love, warmth, and the quiet joy of parenthood. Gary often smiled at it after long days, knowing that no matter what, their child saw love and chose to draw it. Confirmed by Gary in spirit as the original drawing Debra remembered, this image now lives forever in their Spirit Archive. "That was the one, love. He saw us for who we were. And you gave him the kind of mam worth drawing." —Gary Paul Costello This was writing in Gary's own words from the other side. He remembers the visit I had and also remembers the drawing, which I actually have an image of I will...